Pushing my rickety trolley cart containing all of my worldly possessions for the next year, I stepped out of the Indira Gandhi International Airport and into mayhem. I shoved my way to the prepaid taxi stand (if you don’t get a prepaid taxi you inevitably get ripped off going from the airport to the city) only to be told that the prepaid taxi stand was back inside the airport, but wouldn’t madam like a premium taxi? The meter does not work, but very good price. I wrested my trolly around and went back to the airport to be stopped by two men in camouflage with very large guns with the express occupation of preventing anyone from entering back into the airport.
Here’s the first reality of India: like it or not, fair or not, white people play by different rules, women play by different rules, and white women really play by different rules than the rest of India. After I persistently repeated the word ‘taxi’ and pointed inside, the guards waved me on. In this instance being white and being a woman helped me- often it does not.
I trundled my way to the prepaid taxi counter and got a voucher to Connaught Place near my hostel. The voucher cost 320 rupees. I had a 500 rupee note. Here’s the second reality of India: small bills are nowhere and everywhere, and you must often lie to get them. Even when People have change, (like the man at this particular counter with small bills in plain sight) they will often tell you that they don’t. Often times in order to break a large bill 500 or 1000 rupees- roughly 10 or 20 USD respectively- I have to go to a nice restaurant or a shop and buy something because no one else will accept them. I paid 300 rupees to get to my hotel, and tipped the driver in USD.
My first week in India has been primarily overwhelming (it takes time to get used to stares and crossing streets through blurs of rickshaws.) However, I am adjusting and starting to love what I find here. The people I work with are incredibly kind and friendly. Every women’s organization that I have contacted has been unbelievably helpful. So although my feet are streaked with the unfortunate cocktail that makes up Delhi street dirt and I sweat through all of my clothes within 3 minutes of leaving my hotel, I am settling and, I hope, beginning to thrive.